Who has the right to make life?
God’s creating continues through nature and, especially and
primarily, people. “Procreation,” producing offspring to extend
humanity generation to generation, is a sacred responsibility. Unless
we procreate, well ... there is no future for humankind. However, the
“right to procreate” is not absolute. Holy Scripture and history
witness that many blessed people did not procreate and should not
have done so.
As both a father and dad, I appreciate the sound bite: “Any male
can be a father; it takes a man to be a dad!” Don’t we all know
people who should not be parents? Society is obligated to make
decisions about who are, and who are not, responsible adults, able to
live among the rest of us without specific restrictions and to
exercise their rights freely in our society. Clearly, there are
people we don’t want around our children; there are others who should
not be out and about alone. Should there be criteria for who may
parent?
When, in the first chapter of Genesis, God said, “Be fruitful and
multiply,” neither “without limitation” nor “irresponsibly” were
included. I think that both “responsibly” and “with reasonable
guidelines” were implied. In the Ohio case cited, it seems to me
unlikely that this fellow will “start paying child support” unless
his wages are appropriated, so the lower court’s promise to imprison
him may be enforced. Attaching wages seems appropriate; imprisonment
for procreating, even irresponsibly so, seems harsh to me. At least
no one is threatening more drastic actions. God forbid!
THE VERY REV’D CANON
PETER D. HAYNES
St. Michael & All Angels
Episcopal Parish Church
Corona del Mar
Absolutely not. No state, organization or person should impose on
another person the inherent right to procreate. The Ohio Supreme
Court made the right decision. Had the courts ruled otherwise, then
other “unacceptable standards” of parenthood could also be argued.
This is not to say that the father should not be held accountable in
sustaining his children; to the contrary, he should be hounded.
IMAM SAYED
MOUSTAFA AL-QAZWINI
Islamic Educational Center of
Orange County
Costa Mesa
This one is a bit dicey, because it pits the morality of
responsibility against the morality of personal rights. What happens
if the government gets in the business of determining who has the
right to become parents? Over time, could these same restrictions be
applied to people of color, social status or religion? Granted, it is
far fetched, but why open the doors? Once precedent is set, things
change very quickly.
I do believe this man needs some extreme measures. However, like
the judge ruled in this case, there must be a remedy for the man if
he pays his debt. This man’s irresponsibility becomes our
responsibility, as our culture must step up and care for his children
and the lifestyles they choose as a result of being raised by such a
father.
Therefore, our society does have a right to bring justice for
these children and make efforts to educate this man about how we are
paying for his carefree lifestyle. However, government is very bad at
this kind of stuff. Faith-based institutions, their neighbors and the
like are much more effective than government programs.
We -- nongovernmental society -- need to step up and stop passing
the buck to the government. We need to decide that it is our
responsibility to reach out to these people and not simply respond by
calling the police or social agency. We need to start dropping off
groceries, helping the kids with their homework, training the parents
in resume preparation and interviewing skills, budget development,
etc. Until WE do better at reaching out to those in need, we should
be careful about government remedies.
SENIOR ASSOCIATE PASTOR
RIC OLSEN
Harbor Trinity
Costa Mesa
The Judeo-Christian ethic teaches that couples are gifted with
children, rather than entitled to them. Both faiths underscore the
state’s stake in the family, the sanctity of human life and orderly
progression through the generations. According to these traditions,
having children is not only a private matter, but involves duties to
the children who are born, to the family unit and to the community.
Giving birth not only involves the creation of a close connection
between parents and between parents and children, but also a social
bond, for it presents new members into society whose prospective
needs and capacities have considerable public implications.
But it is a constitutional, not Biblical, matter that we take up
here. While I sympathize with the position that parents who abuse
drugs, give birth to multiple children sent to foster care, do not
pay child support, neglect their children, place a burden on social
services and drain our taxpayer dollars should not have more
children, there is no limit in the Constitution on the number of
children one can create. Enforcing celibacy, allowing the state to
regulate birth, employing a financial means test to validate the
right to have children, strikes me as an unwarranted invasion of
privacy.
Historian Lucy Davidowicz writes: “Almost as soon as the Nazis
came to power, they began to apply their racial ideology and enact
these racial notions into law. The first step came with the law on
compulsory sterilization. Thereafter the German dictatorship embarked
on a program to carry out a policy of racial eugenics, or racial
biology. That program had two aspects: positive eugenics and negative
eugenics. Positive eugenics was a program designed to increase the
population of persons who were regarded as racially pure “Aryans.”
Negative eugenics was a program designed first to halt the
procreation of persons or categories of persons who did not meet the
standards of racial purity through sterilization.”
Shameful flirtations with regulating births have marred the
American record. According to the Center for Individual Freedom, it
was in 1924 that Carrie Buck, a teenager in Charlottesville, Va., was
chosen as the first person to be sterilized under the state’s newly
adopted eugenics law. Ms. Buck, whose mother resided in an asylum for
the epileptic and feebleminded, was accused of having a child out of
wedlock. She was diagnosed as promiscuous and the probable parent of
“socially inadequate offspring.”
The U.S. Supreme Court, in the landmark case Buck v. Bell (1927),
ruled 8-1 to uphold the sterilization of Ms. Buck on the grounds that
she was a “deficient” mother. Chief Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes
Jr., an adherent of eugenics, declared, “Three generations of
imbeciles are enough.” The shameful Buck v. Bell decision led to the
forced sterilization of more than 65,000 Americans.
For the government today to interfere in this area could create a
slippery slope, in which the sphere of procreative liberty would be
increasingly curtailed. It could well lead back to a dark time in
America’s moral history when the fundamental right to privacy was
assaulted.
Margaret Sanger wrote about the difficulties presented by the
ideas of “fit” and “unfit.” She asked, “Who is to decide this
question?” Indeed.
RABBI MARK S. MILLER
Temple Bat Yam
Newport Beach
How can we help children who are being raised by one parent or who
are living in poverty? How can we teach people to be responsible
parents?
First steps would involve being more serious about finding fathers
who dodge child support payments. There have been excellent results
in states where enforcement was really a priority. We could also
create realistic ways for fathers who are unemployed or working at
minimum wage to contribute to their children’s support.
Parenting or family skills classes should be required of all
students in eighth and ninth grade. This is more important than many
of the subjects currently taught. Unlike driving cars, no test or
license is required to have a child, but we could include parenting
in the curriculum.
We can challenge the gender stereotypes that make taking care of
children “women’s” work and of low value in our society. We can
encourage people to value men who take care of their children, both
financially and by providing day-to-day care at home.
We can support sex education, contraception and keep abortion
legal. At the same time, we can offer good adoptive services and
various kinds of support to give as much choice as possible to women
faced with an unplanned pregnancy. Just as importantly, we can help
girls to develop healthy self-esteem, which affects whether they
choose to have babies at a young age, since studies find that they
often equate it with maturity, accomplishment and independence.
The idea of laws that limit procreation seems to come up around
public funding. Sometimes the context is that women who receive
public assistance should be sterilized if they continue to have
children or if they want to receive benefits. In the United States, I
think most people disapprove of foreign governments that limit the
number of children families can have. We also see that it results in
an imbalance between the sexes, because so many people prefer to have
a boy rather than a girl if they can have only one child.
I am opposed to proposals to limit procreation by law. I am in
favor of more effective social services to help people make better
choices and raise their children in the best possible conditions.
REV. DR. DEBORAH BARRETT
Zen Center of Orange County
Costa Mesa
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